If you love your child more than you dislike your ex, you won't be bad-mouthing his other parent. Today we'll discuss two divorce problems from your youngster's point of view. We'll also offer 7 child reactions to divorce, a divorce checklist, as well as, 15 ways to love and help your child.
Imagine a child named Lucas. His angry parents are divorced. When his mother drops him off at his dad's house, he's greeted by his step-mother. From the look on her face he gets the feeling that she wishes he hadn't come. His dad is outside playing catch with his older step-brother. Lucas doesn't know what to do.
He decides to go outside and say, "Hi." They keep on playing catch. Lucas notices that his step-brother's mitt is brand new. His dad says, "Oh, is this the day you visit?"
I remember a father who left his wife and kids to live with his best friend's wife. He came into my counseling office one day angrily announcing, "Kids are flexible! I'm going to show them what a real relationship is like."
Unfortunately for him, his kids weren't flexible because they wanted nothing to do with him and his new girlfriend. They didn't want to see how his good relationship worked. They didn't forgive him for walking out on them. Again, children are not robots. They have feelings.
Ninety percent of children, whose parents are divorcing, experience some problems like, a decline in school performance, a loss of interest in friends and hobbies, sleep difficulties, and somatic complaints such as headaches, stomach aches and fatigue.
Because many children struggle with divorce, it's essential to provide them with coping strategies. This kindle book prepares them for the big changes that divorce brings -- living in two homes, a blended family, and dealing with loneliness, self-blame and anger.
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